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[NA][PVX][SoS][Chillax][Casual][New player friendly]Intense Pleasure [Mmm]. Returning/new/vet all welcome especially night time players.

2020.06.27 05:51 beaniemoo [NA][PVX][SoS][Chillax][Casual][New player friendly]Intense Pleasure [Mmm]. Returning/new/vet all welcome especially night time players.

Every guild has a history. Avoid watching videos if you're eating/drinking. You're welcome.

A little too much about us

  • Our guild started with 4 loners doing drunk Dragon's Stand, got caught up in guild politics. We got hurt, left, then went our own ways till I got sick of flicking my bean alone. So I turned my personal bank into this mess. It was just a few weeks before PoF release, but a year later, we climaxed at level 69 and located at Windswept Haven. Our guild hall is beautifully decorated for max efficiency when it comes to daily harvesting. The hall is also boasted with subtle landmarks from different generations of players who have been groomed here before they moved on to other top tier guilds.
  • If some skip getting laid to join a specific guild event, you know how much Intense Pleasure we’re pumping. (Spoiler alert! He still got laid after we discussed all the possible excuses. Win win~). This post gonna be slong. If you don’t read and swallow it all, you clearly don’t deserve us cuz spitters are quitters >:]
  • We have 2/3 inactive, it’s that time to refresh our roster with fresh meat. We tend to keep our medium girth for ultimate satisfaction, minus any complication. Size matters sometimes. TL;DR skim through bold texts for our main info. Requirements for Potential Members and time table waist down below.
  • The guild will not only be a home for me and my homies, but also for filthy casuals and drama free folks. You want to get online and enjoy every a$$ pecks of the game, minus drama? You’ve come to the right place, my friend. Why solo when you can have an extra hand for rubbing? Why run with people nagging like your co-workers? Or who treat this like a job? Why so serious? Come on now. The whole guild thing should be fun! The choice is in your hand. (Prefer a clean one)
  • We're on the thick side, but not overly populated so we have a chance to get to know you from your head to your toe. Mmm We have players from Murica, Snow Mexican, Kiwi, Downlander, some in Pacific Ocean, lurkers from Europe, etc. The fact that people in remote areas try to bypass security to sneak in our Discord while at work; plus, the amount gamer gorls we have are big testaments for how fun we are as a guild. We want to revive that feeling every time we re-post our recruitment. We also make many discoveries that we're proud of. Like this. Or this
  • Our primary goal is to mentor new/returning players, and fuel some passion onto the vets. So we can get to know each other dirty little secrets better while giving back to the community. The more you know about the game, the more you can help yourself and others. This is from one guildie, quoted from our Discord: “i've had the game since early 2013 or 2014 and barely leveled one account to 80 and despite buying HOT on launch i never played it very much at all despite my professed "love" for the game, but once i joined this guild it gave me a reason to play, it reminded me of all the things i had enjoyed and the sense of community that made guild wars 2 special." Some people found their unlucky way to our post on either reddit, or gw2forum. Otherwise, we single-handedly pick our members. So we know exactly what we're looking for and the personalities that suit our standards.
  • Our motto is Play the game, not the meta. Join for the fun, and stay for the pleasure. You’re highly encouraged to run builds that scream your personality, but also work well in a grouping environment. We have an absolutely no repping environment. We have members who rep 98% of their other guild(s) cuz they have to, or get kicked. But they run 87% of their time with us, in-game and Discord. Repping a guild to us is to show off which hole you're from, it shouldn't be a dealbreaker. Although, we lie a little. We'd appreciated if you rep in guild events so we can round up the numbers. And do rep us during childbirths so we can receive the credits. We usually call our daddy for help
  • We're working professionals, scientists, doctors, nurses, drug dealers, strippers, etc. We understand time is of the essence. If you can only play a little naughty every night, you probably don't want to waste time with an unfit group of people. Or worse, end up stressing out in a toxic environment. This is a game. We want to improve ourselves as players but we don't want it to be our second job. Let's have fun getting it on! If there's any heated moment, we talk it out like grown-ups. We refuse to play the cold-war game (aka no talking). Cuz it'll only fuel unnecessary drama due to misunderstandings.
  • We’ve groomed so many generations of players, especially social anxiety folks and loners. We’re proud to bite them lightly, so they could be open to pugging for group contents and genuinely get better and be more confident IRL. When they best themselves, they venture out to high-end guilds, but still check up on us on a blue moon. That’s the type of community we try to uphold.
  • Got a guild website. It's a big, bad, outdated one. Eventually, we're aspired to make it into the like of Snow Crows, but only for casuals, nubs, and funsies uptime. Our ancient site hasn't been touched since the guild release and would need a Lawn Mower 3.0. But it has huge base info from drop-down menus. We hope new players find it useful when starting out. Things you can focus on a specific part of the game. Wikipedia can be a pain to navigate. One of our guild mates comments: "dude thisa website is super informative :open_mouth:" https://intensepleasure.wordpress.com

What we do

  • We're passionate lovers when it comes to fractals. The scratching, biting, pinching type of passion. It is one of the most rewarding end-game contents, and open to those who own none of the expansions to certain levels. And doesn't need to spend time organizing like raids. Hence we choose it to be our PvE focus. It promotes team play a lot. Since the guild's establishment, we run fractal training almost nightly, and has trained approximately over 143 people now on different tiers, with pugs and ex-guildies included. Not big of a number but it's some honest work. We strike to level the majority to at least tier 3 fractals. So nobody has to pick up groups. Ever again. We make it easy for people to learn mechanics and start their own journey to obtain better gears. I personally run fractal CMs train on Sundays. And I could escort you for tier 1 trainings on most week nights around 8-9pm CST. Our 2 newly appointed fractal advisors run fractal trains in the morning NA time, sometimes during NA nights as well. Other vets also group up with new players from time to time. Please don't be afraid to ask~ Absolutely no experience, nor gears required to start doing fractals. You don’t even have to be level 80! Yes, you heard that right. Do say something in guild chat/Discord before LFG because we want to run with each other. That's the point of having guildies, right? Bring in the bitches! First day of Slippery Slope instability. 100CM! Omegalul
  • We are chillax sPvP players A lot of us are in gold/platinum divisions, duo/put up against top 30, or on the 250 leaderboard ourselves. Now we mostly play unranked for funsies, especially for daily completion, or occasional sPvP guild missions. sPvP is only fun when play with friends, even if getting killed and stomped en masse. Hey, it's a game, gotta laugh at ourselves on voice comm, or hear the girls freak out and scream cuz they get jumped at. Definitely more fun than a doctor can prescribe for your heart. We're rusty and we don't mind to admit that we are. But if you ever need to learn the basics of this game mode, you know where to find us. We also exchange homemade builds that are so scary none dares to try. Girl finally learns to take "intense pleasure" phone capture
  • We embrace drinking metas/fungeons/raids (Have to adult in order to join although it's not always involved drinking) "Alcoholism not required but strongly encouraged". We run dungeons because they’re nostalgic af. Just kidding. We have dungeoneers who can teach you anything you need to know about sex dungeons, dragons, and more. We're trying to make fucking dungeons fun dungeons a thing again. Because fungeons are one of the best places to test builds, get rekt, or get familiar with a new class. There are lots of achieves and achieve points for doing dungeons too! And map breaking. They're also free access to people who don't own any expansions. Currently we're running them quite spontaneous so all you have to do is ask if anybody runs it, and we shall group up. Here's our take on a drunk dungeon tour.
  • We run strikes at least once/twice a week on all bosses. Once you finish a run with us, you'll get the mechanics down to the T and get ready to run whenever. Strikes are fairly easy as they're an introduction to raids. Only a few bosses are kinky.
  • We try to raid To us, raiding should be a big bad orgy with full of laughters. No gear check; however, require matching underwear. (If you happen to wear them at all) Off-meta builds are acceptable, as long as you do your homework and pull the numbers. Or at least know which side of your face to smash against the keyboard. Our stand for raid is simple. There are 2 things. One. We're not Gods and can't pull dead weights. Two. Meta is the optimal standard, but it shouldn't hinder you from joining/learning mechanics. Therefore you can run any class you have your eyes on, something that is not too scandalous of course. We'd help with build crafting if need be. So you will love what you run and it makes learning a breeze. Because there are already enough guilds/groups that force play certain classes. Even if you're new, and you don't have a big wallet in-game to afford these fancy panties, you can still enjoy the contents. We currently are in need of more bodies who are interested in the game mode. That way we can set up a few progressive, or training runs across different time zones. We try to run spontaneous trains during weeknights around 9-11pm CST. Raid time is always our biggest enemy due to needing 10 people online at the same time. Not only that, we know people are very afraid of flaming and toxicity. So we try our best to drag you into the contents with the intention to have fun and learn something new. Hey, if we won't make it, maybe next time. It's no biggie. That's the attitude we want out of you. One of our first music trains~
  • Typical girl missions run on Friday night, starting @8-9pm CST. We want to move guild missions to a different night cuz it overlaps WvW reset night. But most peeps just save that time slot to catch up with us, so we keep going on Friday night. We just think these guys make an excuse to drink. Since we max out the guild hall, we tend to dedicate that time slot into training raids, or doing meta events, achieve hunting, etc. Our missions can also be activated at any time, by a lot of members. You don't have to wait for any officer to open them, just ask around and party up. "Guild commendations" that generated from guild missions are great to get early-game ascended trinkets. Hence we keep running missions. Discord is highly recommended for team sexicommunication and explanation.
  • We have bring-your-own-booze events on Saturday nights. Like dis. It's when Discord is crowded with shit and giggles. We promise no satisfaction since our insurance hasn't covered for that part yet. But you'd save 15% or more on car insurance if you switch to Intense Pleasure. And sometimes we do need professional help..
  • So far we've run Dragon's Stand drinking meta, finding Princess, group jumping puzzles, guild races, slo-mo hp trains, Becky wanna smash sPvP night, gambling dates, drunk Arah, card against humanity nights out, yearly secret Santa. In the future, we hope to incorporate guild hide and seek, guild truth or dare, guild karaoke, guild movie night, etc. We currently try to get guild dungeons and dragons going. With each event, we try to invent our own rules to take shots/sips if you're drinking. Or just something to have a laugh at. You can join drinking juices/milk/wateme. No drinkingcism at all. We had 2 casual meet-ups IRL and we keep telling each other if this shitty guild is still up in the next 5 years, we may make it in Vegas!

Potential members

  • 21+. Our bouncers will ID check you upon joining. And in order to apply for the 'Gamer Grill' tag on Discord, you have to send nudes to Deddy. We’re not quite je ne sais quoi “family friendly” that you can’t even say a fucking swear word. We're also not an ERP (erotic roleplay) guild as much as our guild tag implies. Sad, isn't it? But you can use the tag as a disguise to sneak into one of those parties. There’ll be banters, F bomb, C bomb, you name it. We're very classy though, we only drop them on special occasions, or not. There's no filter around here. At the same time, we're not bad sailors. We would somewhat prefer you to not be a very bad one. Definitely not 7-swear-words-in-one-sentence type or we'll use spanking paddles. We keep our Discord clean from porn and too much vulgarity so it's totally safe for work. We have quite a crowd in their sexy 30s while the rest are 23+, hungry women and men. There’s some exceptions for 19 and 20 babes. But, they have to possess either kissable lips or a spankable derrière. [Mmm] We pick a mature crowd so we could hold a decent, rather spicy conversation. Plus, it won't make you feel out of place in a bunch of teenagers when you're sexy and you know it. Anyone at any level, new/experienced, with some unholy common sense. Who want a no stress zone, and a laid back community to play contents together, you are all very welcome. And thank you!
  • DO NOT talk about anime. It’ll likely go on for hours and kill your phone battery. Be careful of the weebs.
  • You're highly encouraged to get on Discord with us. This is somewhat important. We tend to have Discord toggled on while playing. You don't have to join voice chat or anything, just try to be active on Discord text chat for call-outs and updates. Even if we play different games/game contents, it makes MMO an MMO with some communication. Discord remains our source of interaction during the day when we're at work doing NSFW stuff. That's the only way to get to know you before we could group up at night, if any. It's ok if you don't have a microphone; or under IRL circumstances, you cannot talk. We will never force you to do anything you're not comfy with. The ability to listen is a must. Sometimes. Not required but it does make a huge difference. A lot of us are shy and some mute themselves on Discord, just so we can reply through text chat in-game. It's totally okay. It makes processing info faster and you focus on the things that matter the most instead of typing 5 paragraphs just to ask questions. And that's what we're trying to promote one way or another. Discord also makes training runs/guild missions/most group contents 10 times smoother. And we're here to do group contents, right? We understand wholeheartedly if your voice may cause certain body reactions to us and that's what you're afraid of. Fear Not This Night and let your voice porn be heard! It will give us a chance to get to know you better.
  • We don't judge a book by its cover and have been recruiting people who just turned into new mums/dads, LGBTQIA+, couples, special needs, etc. We'd treat you with respect and we'd want the same in return. One for all and all for one vibe. We want our community to be rich with different backgrounds, stories and even accents. Our peeps are mature oriented, at the same time we don't take shit seriously. This is a game and casual at its best too. We group up to play other games, like D3, Smite, Overwatch, Monster Hunter World, Tom Clancy's The Division 2, etc. But GW2 remains our go-to for the rich lore since GW1, endless exploration, and group events that never get old of bugs. And because of its casual nature, GW2 is very good to play with friends, de-stress after work/after kids going to bed. It's just a great MMO to play when you don't have that much time to grind.
  • There's only one thing to strictly keep in mind is to respect others, regarding of their genders, statuses, races, nationalities, religions, or sexual orientations. We maybe beautiful for our own good but we don't want to be featured in a soap opera series. For that, we don’t tolerate drama, sexism, harassment, or verbal abuse under any case, especially against our female part of the population, in which we have quite a growing number. Ooh and no elitism please. Thank you.
  • Since work/school/quickie gets in the way during the day, we often get online and play after reset. (Reset time is 7pm CST now) So we'll want anyone who can fit these bills: You are always welcome to join <3 even if the time table is not your prime time.
     * OCX night time. * Aussies: 11:30am – 5:30pm ACST Kiwis: 3pm – 9pm NZDT. * NA prime time. 8-9pm CST until 2-3am CST Or 6-7pm PST to 12-1am PST. NA insomniacs, where ya at? 
  • Aren't you tired when joining a new guild and get asked to represent them? Like whatttt? You barely know anybody there. Or get face spammed in map chat to join this guild A, that guild B which you know nothing about? What the heck they stand for and what are they doing? If you're a big lurker? And let's be real, you never really run anything with your near 500-member guilds. You're there for the max guild hall benefits and have bodies to do group hugs. Eventually, you'll leave because they’re glorified map chats that your tiny weeny chatbox can’t keep up with. Or end up playing alone too often because your smaller guilds are too dang small to satisfy you have anyone to play with. Smaller guilds tend to have fewer online people at any given time. We've been there done that. It makes you feel like playing solo because there's no one online when you do. Nobody to group up with. Know those feelings quite well, don't you? Time to put an end to all that misery, hiding, and lurking. Come out and play, you * censored *. Although, our thick, medium size might not reflect anything because we have members who are inactive for a millennia. We don't have a heart to kick them yet. We got a rich vein of ore you’d love to swing a few times for extra experiences if our offer is not moist enough already.
  • We won't ask 100 first-date questions. There isn't any application to apply. We get asked that a lot. This is actually a very simple test. You feel amused, you like what you see, you'd love to sign up even if all this is bluffing. If you don't, you walk away because of this huge wall of text. So yeah, consider us an upscale lounge with drinks on the house. Come on in, chill, have some fun. If we're not what you're looking, our door is open 24/7. Ask for an invite, we'd provide one. Ask for any extra services, we will charge upon the hour. Jk. We require some common sense. Humor is a plus. When it’s needed, you’re not afraid to get down and get dirty. Ooh baby. We have fun in the allotted time while trying our best for the team/the guild. That's the mentality in almost anything guild related contents. It's ok if you suck _____ (Fill in the blank) But as long as you try your best, we appreciate you. That's all that matters. Don't worry about wiping and failing. It's part of the process. If you read this far (we secretly hope you do), and you've been nodding with a few things being said and soon to be done, that is more than enough to show our chemistry. We hope to expand that chemistry into a beautiful relationship. The deeper the better. (That's what -She)
  • If any of the above hits your Gspot, whisper in our ear your account name (ex: NUDE.6969). Or either let us know your sluttiest character name, or simply comment here if you're an exhibitionist. We cannot wait to bend you over, and do all these wonderful things to you. We know you're biting your bottom lip just thinking about it now. Stop it. We wish you an incredible day/night wherever the f you are. We also thank you so much for your precious time to tap into this enormous zone post and consider us at some point. And of course be stupidly brave enough to apply. Sometimes people just don't click. We understand that. #feelbadman if it happens between us. If you pass us by, we wish you nothing but the best of luck in finding your one true home. If you have further questions regarding our guild, feel free to shoot them, preferably on the belly. Not the hair! God damn it. We'll get to you as soon as we are able to. We're waiting patiently for your reply. Until then P.S. Huge congratulations on reading this huge shit post all the way through. Woooo.
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2020.05.24 03:46 yoyoyo15 i don't have a pof account. i recently started getting messages from pof.

i've gone through the following cycle many times: i sign up for pof, then i delete my account. rinse and repeat.
the last time i had a pof account, i decided that i had had enough. i deleted my account probably around december 2019 or january 2020. i stopped receiving emails from pof.com.
a few days ago, i started receiving emails that seem to be from pof.com, but i didn't sign up for pof again. how do i handle this? i went to pof.com to find an email address, but i don't see an email address for them.
i wonder whether the emails are actually from pof.com or whether they are elaborate phishing schemes, where people are hoping that i click on links in the email.
i wonder whether someone opened a pof account and listed my email address as theirs. but wouldn't pof send a confirmation email to my email to see if i started up an account? if someone really did create a pof account with my email address, i could reset "my password" and delete my account, but i feel uncomfortable, because i don't know if i log in to pof, whether they might send me an email to confirm the unsubscribe where i need to click on a link, but then i won't know if the link is really from pof or not. i don't want someone hacking into my computer or getting my email password. i don't know if someone can hack into my computer or get my email password if i try to reset "my" password from pof or not.
or should i just ignore the pof emails? i get a lot of emails from them every day. they appear to be legit emails.
what should i do?
edit: i'm getting emails about matches and which members want to meet me. i put my cursor over the links in the pof emails (without clicking on them), and they do direct back to the pof website. i wonder if my old profile was "resurrected" by some screw up at pof
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2019.11.08 19:16 beaniemoo Intense Pleasure [Mmm]. Chillax guild LF night time players. Vet/New welcome

Every guild has a history. Avoid watching videos if you're eating/drinking. You're welcome.

A little too much about us

  • Our guild started with 4 loners doing drunk Dragon's Stand, got caught up in guild politics. We got hurt, left, then went our own ways till I got sick of flicking my bean alone. So I turned my personal bank into this mess. It was just a few weeks before PoF release, but a year later, we climaxed at level 69 and located at Windswept Haven.
  • If some skip getting laid to join a specific guild event, you know how much Intense Pleasure we’re pumping. (Spoiler alert! He still got laid after we discussed all the possible excuses. Win win~). This post gonna be slong. If you don’t read and swallow it all, you clearly don’t deserve us cuz spitters are quitters >:]
  • Since we've been switching jobs/moving to different states/games, we also have 2/3 inactive, it’s that time to refresh our roster with fresh meat. We tend to keep our medium girth for ultimate satisfaction without any complication. Size matters sometimes. TL;DR skim through bold texts for our main info. Requirements for Potential Members and time table waist down below.
  • The guild will not only be a home for me and my homies, but also for filthy casuals and drama free folks. You want to get online and enjoy every a$$ pecks of the game, minus drama? You’ve come to the right place, my friend. Why solo when you can have an extra hand for rubbing? Why run with people nagging like your co-workers? Or who treat this like a job? Why so serious? Come on now. The whole guild thing should be fun! The choice is in your hand. (Prefer a clean one)
  • We're on the thick side, but not overly populated so we have a chance to get to know you from your head to your toe. Mmm We have players from Murica, Snow Mexican, Kiwi, Downlander, some in Pacific Ocean, lurkers from Europe, etc. The fact that people in remote areas try to bypass security to sneak in our Discord while at work; plus, how many gamer gorls we have are big testaments for how fun we are as a guild. We want to revive that feeling every time we post our recruitment. We also make many discoveries that we're proud of. Like this.
  • Our primary goal is to mentor new/returning players and fuel their passion. So they can pick up the pace while get to know each other dirty little secrets better. This is from one guildie, quoted from our Discord: “i've had the game since early 2013 or 2014 and barely leveled one account to 80 and despite buying HOT on launch i never played it very much at all despite my professed "love" for the game, but once i joined this guild it gave me a reason to play, it reminded me of all the things i had enjoyed and the sense of community that made guild wars 2 special." Some people found their unlucky way to our post on either reddit or gw2 forum. Other than that, we singlehandedly pick our members. So we know exactly what we're looking for and the personalities that suit our lewd standards.
  • Our motto is play the game, not the meta. Join for the fun, and stay for the pleasure. You’re highly encouraged to run builds that scream your personality, but also work well in a grouping environment. We have an absolutely no repping environment. We have members who rep 98% of their other guild(s) cuz they have to, or get kicked. But they run 87% of their time with us, in-game and Discord. Repping a guild to us is to show off which hole you're from, it shouldn't be a dealbreaker. Although, we lie a little. We'd appreciated if you rep in guild events so we can round up the numbers. And do rep us during childbirths so we can receive the credits. Lots of swimming right there
  • We're working professionals, scientists, doctors, nurses, drug dealers, strippers, etc. We understand time is of the essence. Or if you can only play a little naughty every night, you probably don't want to waste time with an unfit group of people. Or worse, end up stressing out in a toxic environment. This is a game. We want to improve ourselves as players but we don't want it to be our second job. Let's have fun getting it on! If there's any heated moment, we talk it out like grown-ups. We refuse to play the cold-war game (aka no talking). Cuz it'll only fuel unnecessary drama due to misunderstandings.
  • We’ve groomed so many generations of players, especially social anxiety folks and loners. We’re proud to bite them lightly, so they could be open to pugging for group contents and genuinely get better IRL. When they best themselves, they venture to high-end guilds, but still check up on us on a blue moon. That’s the type of community we try to uphold.
  • Got a guild website. It's a big, bad, outdated one. Eventually, we're aspired to make it into the like of Snow Crows, but only for casuals, nubs, and funsies uptime. Our ancient site hasn't been touched since the guild release and would need a lawnmower. But it has huge base info from drop-down menus. We hope new players find it useful when starting out. Things you can focus on a specific part of the game. Wikipedia can be a pain to navigate. One of our guild mates comments: "dude thisa website is super informative :open_mouth:" https://intensepleasure.wordpress.com

What we do

  • We're passionate lovers when it comes to fractals. The scratching, biting, pinching type of passion. It is one of the most rewarding end-game contents, and open to those who own none of the expansions to certain levels. And doesn't need to spend time organizing like raids. Hence we choose it to be our main PvE focus. It promotes team play and helps us grow closer. Since the guild's establishment, we run fractal training almost nightly, and has trained approximately over 133 people now on different tiers, with pugs and ex-guildies included. Not big of a number but it's honest work. We strike to level the majority to at least tier 3 fractals. So nobody has to pick up groups. Ever again. I personally run fractal CMs train on Sundays. However, if you have a group of 2-4 players, I would escort you for tier 1 trainings. On most eve of weekdays around 8-9pm CST. Other vets also group up with new players from time to time. Please don't be afraid to ask~ Absolutely no experience, nor gears required to start doing fractals. You don’t even have to be level 80! Do say something in guild chat/Discord before LFG because we want to run with you. Together. That's the point of having guildies, right? Bring in the bitches! First day of Slippery Slope instability. 100CM! Omegalul
  • We are chillax sPvP players A lot of us are in gold/platinum divisions, duo/put up against top 30, or on the leaderboard ourselves. Now we mostly play unranked for funsies, especially for daily completion, or occasional sPvP guild missions. sPvP is only fun when play with friends, even if getting killed and stomped en masse. Hey, it's a game, gotta laugh at ourselves on voice comm. Or hear the girls freak out and scream cuz they get jumped at. Definitely more fun than a doctor can prescribe for your heart. If you'd like some good ol matches, or love build crafting, you know where to find us. We also exchange homemade builds that are so scary none dares to try. Girl finally learns to take "intense pleasure" phone capture without the flare
  • We embrace drinking metas/fungeons/raids (Have to adult in order to join. Although it's not always involved drinking) "Alcoholism not required but strongly encouraged". We run dungeons because they’re nostalgic af. Just kidding. We have dungeoneers who can teach you anything you need to know about sex dungeons, dragons, and more. We're trying to make fucking dungeons fun dungeons a thing again. Because fungeons are one of the best places to test builds, get rekt, or get familiar with a new class. There are lots of achieves and achieve points for doing dungeons too! And map breaking. They're also free access to people who don't own any expansions. Currently we're running them quite spontaneous but usually on the weekends. Here's our take on a drunk dungeon tour.
  • We raid To us, raiding should be a big bad orgy with full of laughters. No gear check; however, require matching underwear. (If you happen to wear them at all) Off-meta builds are acceptable, as long as you do your homework and pull the numbers. Or at least know which side of your face to smash against the keyboard. Our stand for raid is simple. 2 things. One. We're not Gods and can't pull dead weights. Two. Meta is the optimal standard, but it shouldn't hinder you from joining/learning mechanics. Therefore you can run any class you have your eyes on. We'd help with build crafting so you will love what you run and it makes learning a breeze. Even if you're new, and you don't have a big wallet in-game to afford these fancy panties, you can still enjoy the contents. Now we do late night shenanigan training on Fri/Sat night. Although we try to run our train often during weekdays around 8-9pm CST. One of our first music trains~
  • Typical girl missions run on Friday night, starting @8-9pm CST, before any raids. We want to move guild missions to a different night cuz it overlaps WvW reset hours. But most peeps just save that time slot to catch up with us, so we keep going on Friday night. Since we max out the guild hall, we tend to dedicate that time into training raids, or doing various group contents like meta events, achieve hunting, etc. But our missions can be activated at any time, by a lot of members. You don't have to wait for any officer, just ask around and group together. Guild commendations generated from missions are great to get early-game ascended trinkets. Discord is highly recommended for team sexicommunication and explanation.
  • We have bring-your-own-booze events on Saturday nights. Like dis. It's when Discord is crowded with shit and giggles. We promise no satisfaction since our insurance hasn't covered for that part. Yet. But you'd save 15% or more on car insurance if you switch to us. And sometimes we do need professional help..
  • So far we've run Dragon's Stand drinking meta, finding Princess, group jumping puzzles, guild races, slo-mo hp trains, Becky wanna smash sPvP night, gambling dates, drunk Arah, card against humanity nights out, secret Santa. In the future, we hope to incorporate guild hide and seek, guild truth or dare, guild karaoke, guild movie night, etc. We currently try to get guild dungeons and dragons going. With each event, we try to invent our own rules to take shots/sips if you're drinking. Or just something to have a laugh at. You can join drinking juices/milk/wateme. No drinkingcism at all. We had 2 meet-ups IRL and we keep telling each other if this shit is still up in the next 5 years, we'll make it in Vegas!

Potential members

  • 21+. Our bouncers will ID check you upon joining. And in order to apply for the 'Gamer Grill' tag on Discord, you have to send nudes to Deddy. We’re not quite je ne sais quoi “family friendly” that you can’t even say a fucking swear word. We're also not an ERP (erotic roleplay) guild as much as our guild tag implies. Sad, isn't it? There’ll be banters, F bomb, C bomb, you name it. We're very classy though, we only drop them on special occasions. Or not. There's no filter around here. At the same time, we're not bad sailors. We would somewhat prefer you to not be a very bad one. We keep our Discord clean from porn and too much vulgarity so it's totally safe for work. We have quite a crowd in their sexy 30s while the rest are 23+, women and men. There’s some exceptions for 19 and 20. But, they have to possess either kissable lips or a spankable derrière. Mmm. We pick a mature crowd so we could hold a decent, rather spicy conversation. Plus, it won't make you feel out of place in a bunch of teenagers when you're sexy and you know it. Anyone at any level, new/experienced, with some unholy common sense. Who want a no stress zone, and a laid back community to play contents together, you are all very welcome.
  • DO NOT talk about anime. It’ll likely go on for hours and kill your phone battery. Be warn the nerds.
  • You're highly encouraged to get on Discord with us. This is quite important. We tend to have Discord toggled on while playing. You don't have to join voice chat, just have to be active on Discord text chat. Even if we play different games/game contents. It makes MMO an MMO with communication, does it not? Discord remains our source of interaction during the day when we're at work doing NSFW stuff. That's the only way to get to know you before we could group up at night, if any. By that, we didn't mean the same group of people get on voice chat and just talk about themselves. Nuh uh. It's a whole community use it, either text or voice chat. It's still a mean of communication. It'll give you that community feel, somewhere you belong to, people welcome you after that long day at work, etc. It's ok if you don't have a microphone, or under IRL circumstances you cannot talk. We will never force you to do anything you're not comfy with. The ability to listen is a must. Sometimes. Discord just makes training runs/guild missions/most group contents 10 times smoother. And we're here to do group contents, right? We understand wholeheartedly if your voice may cause certain body reactions to us and that's what you're afraid of. Fear Not This Night and let your voice porn be heard! Or if you're muted, you can still use Discord to hear us and reply through in-game text chat. It will give us a chance to get to know you better.
  • We don't judge a book by its cover and have been recruiting people who just turned into new mums/dads, LGBTQA, couples, special needs, etc. We'd treat you with respect and we'd want the same in return. One for all and all for one vibe. We want our community to be rich with different backgrounds, stories and even accents. Our peeps are mature oriented, at the same time we don't take shit seriously. This is a game and casual at its best too. We group up to play other games, like D3, Smite, Overwatch, Monster Hunter World, Tom Clancy's The Division 2, etc. But GW2 remains our go-to for the rich lore since GW1, endless exploration, and group events never get old. And because of its casual nature, GW2 is very good to play with friends, de-stress after work/after kids going to bed, and just overall having fun.
  • There's only one thing to strictly keep in mind is to respect others, regarding of their genders, statuses, races, nationalities, religions, or sexual orientations. We maybe beautiful for our own good but we don't want to be featured in a soap opera series. For that, we don’t tolerate drama, sexism, harassment, or verbal abuse under any case, especially against our female part of the population, in which we have quite a growing number. Ooh and no elitism. If it makes your epeen appear 1.5 times bigger to always be right and look down to someone else, you're in the wrong neighborhood yo.
  • Since work/school/quickie gets in the way during the day, we often get online and play after reset. (Reset time is 6pm CST now) So we'll want anyone who can fit these bills:
     * OCX time. Aussies: 11:30am – 5:30pm ACST Kiwis: 3pm – 9pm NZDT. * NA time. 8-9pm CST until 2-3am CST Or 6-7pm PST to 12-1am PST. NA insomniacs, where ya at? 
  • Aren't you tired when joining a new guild and get asked to represent them? Like what? You barely know anybody there. If you're a big lurker, and let's be real, you never really run anything with your 400+ member guilds. You're there for the max guild hall benefits and have bodies to do group hugs. Eventually, you'll leave because they’re glorified map chats that your chatbox can’t keep up with. Or end up playing with yourself too often because your smaller guilds are too dang small to satisfy you have anyone to play with. Smaller guilds have fewer online folks. It makes you feel like playing solo. There's noone online when you do. Know those feelings quite well, don't you? Time to put an end to all that misery, hiding, and lurking. Come out and play, you * censored *. Although, our thick, medium size might not reflect anything because we have members who are inactive for a millennia. We don't have a heart to kick them. Yet. We got a rich vein of ore you’d love to swing a few times for extra experiences if our offer is not moist enough already.
  • We won't ask 100 first-date questions when you apply to join. Consider us an upscale lounge. Come, have a few drinks on the house and get to know each other better, shall we? Ask for an invite, we'd provide one. Ask for any extra services, we will charge upon the hour. Jk. Not what you're looking for? Our door is open 24/7. No hard feeling. We require some common sense, humor is a plus. When it’s needed, you’re not afraid to get down and get dirty. Ooh baby. We have fun in the alloted time while trying our best for the team/the guild. That's the mentality in almost anything guild related contents. If you read this far (we secretly hope you do), and you've been nodding with a few things being said and soon to be done, that is more than enough to show our chemistry. We hope to expand that chemistry into a beautiful relationship. The deeper the better. (That's what -She)
  • If any of the above hits your Gspot, whisper in our ear your account name (ex: NUDE.6969). Or let us know your sluttiest character name. Or simply comment here if you're an exhibitionist. We cannot wait to bend you over, and do all these wonderful things to you. We know you're biting your bottom lip just thinking about it now. We wish you an incredible day/night wherever the f you are. We also thank you very much for your precious time to tap into this enormous zone post and consider us at some point. And of course be stupidly brave enough to apply. Sometimes people just don't click, no matter what. We understand that. #feelbadman if it happens between us. If you pass us by, we wish you nothing but the best of luck in finding your one true home. If you have further questions regarding our guild, feel free to shoot them, preferably on the belly. Not the hair! God damn it. We'll get to you as soon as we are able to. We're waiting patiently for your reply. Until then P.S. Congratulations on reading this huge shit post all the way through. Yikes.
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2019.09.14 02:52 FireintheMoonlight I never really believed in my sex/porn addiction till now...

So here goes - 8 years ago I quit smoking, drinking, toking, gambling, sex and romantic interests. Slowly, insidiously, my sex addiction (and weed) has returned and it has taken over my life. I have a lot going for me, but I'm on the verge of losing it (again) because I am frankly always trolling fetlife or POF or watching porn. I have so many other interests I want to pursue but seems all I ever have time for is gooning and sketchy meetings with strange men. I have succumbed to the realization that I need to return to SLAA, even though the thought of it makes me want to cry. Edging and orgasming is no longer helping me cope, it's stealing my happiness and my future. Anyway - I know better. I need to delete my fetlife account and all my profiles and have a banishment seance tonight for my hitachi. While I've decided I won't do a hard reset, I am committing to NO porn/fetlife/dating apps and NO sex toys for 30 days while I wrap my head around this massive relapse that I really really need to get a grip on before it takes me out. I think it's time for me to change my phone number too. Please wish me luck and comment with encouragement if you can. I could use some support.
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2018.05.11 09:53 WaitingForEcstasy Any justification on removing Dash Cam recordings?

So in an ongoing trust issue, I checked my BF's (49LL of 7 years) phone tonight. (As a condition of us working it out, he removed the password and 'given me permission' after I caught him messaging someone in Nov.)
Found that he installed the Dash Cam app to access the recordings without having to pull the card out. Note that its MY car and the cam was one my sister bought me. (He has been using my car for the last year cause he and the mechanics haven't been able to fix whats wrong with his truck.)
Anyhow, I had slept from 5pm-10pm and he had supposedly gone meet someone to sell some hard drives on Craigslist then gone to Walmart. I had just gone to a networking event earlier in the day so there HAD to have been lots of recordings.
The only recordings left were at 8:56pm him leaving the house and going to Walmart right down the street. After pulling up, the camera moved like he was adjusting it from it being previously moved. Then the second video of him coming home at 9:07. I found a receipt in the car from 8:56pm of only 2 things, shrimp and mushrooms.
With the selling of the Craigslist items, he had said that he was supposed to have met them at 4pm, waited for 45 min then it got rescheduled to 6pm then 8pm. It ended up not happening and the HDs are still in the front seat.
Also the odometer has 49.6 miles on it. I reset it when I was almost home today and the low gas light went on (to make sure we don't push it to far and run out of gas). So that seems fishy too. He made a point to say that he put $15 in.
He is asleep now so haven't said anything. We have an event that I am speaking at that is 4 hours away tomorrow and it goes over the weekend. I don't want to get into a huge fight and ruin the weekend, but I'm soo not letting this go once we get back.
Also saw that cleared his browser history leaving only 2 days (even though he repetitively has said that he has nothing to hide). Last weekend I had looked and there was like 6 months worth including porn sites (with searches of that makes me question if I am even his type) and over 20 clicks to the POF dating site, one of them being the registration page. (We met on POF 7 years ago.) Found in the login field, the username and after looking that up, its to a black female.
I confronted him about it and his response was that he was just flipping through the photos looking for big tits and it was no different then porn. That since he has ED there was no way that he could 'cheat' on me and I had nothing to worry about. That the username was just him searching and it was hard to see what was 'search' vs 'login' on the 'tiny' screen (note its a 7" phone). Which still WHY the FUCK is he searching for a specific person?
I made it clear that after EVERYTHING we've been through (me having a POF profile up when we were on a 'break' (I lived in a different state for 4 months last summer - didn't meet or even message anyone back) AND me finding in Nov. that he had met 2 chicks off of POF in his deluded attempt to find us a 3rd for a threesome by posing as a women on POF (huge story there for another time), that it was NOT the same and that it was a huge boundary that he crossed.
I swear I want to leave so bad but I literally only have $140 in my pocket and that needs to go for gas/food for this event.
I have some money coming for 2 projects I'm doing (own my own business) but it won't be enough to cover current bills plus new place deposits etc. I don't have consistent income to even trust that I can make it on my own. He's been paying the rent for the last 2 years while I rebuild my biz and has been really supportive of that...
TL;DR:
Is there any justification on removing Dash Cam recordings? I am starting to feel like a crazy person.
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2017.10.03 23:59 Mireles [XHSA][NA]Looking for a established guild to call home? Join XHSA, 12 year running community for active, fun loving, community oriented players.

Summary
Xunlai Heroic Service Agents is expanding our recruitment. We are a long term guild for long term players with a history of maintaining a roster of highly active players that have remained active throughout the history of the Guild Wars games.
We are presently seeking players, of any experience/skill level, like ourselves that are vested in the game and have a long term interest. If you are looking for a guild that will not only be around for your entire gaming experience, but also filled with friendly people to establish friendships with to enhance that experience, we are the guild for you.
While this recruitment post is quite lengthy you will find all the details about the activities we do and a bit about us. Review in part or in whole, but at the very least it is important to review our recruitment page on our website to know what to expect and what will be expected from members of our guild.
Here is a quick summary of our current activities.
About XHSA
XHSA is a 12 year running guild established on release day of Guild Wars 1. We have always focused on the ideals that foster community as people are most important in our guild philosophy. It is the members that make any guild great and we recruit on the idea that our guild should only be filled with quality members that feel as we do in making our guild the best place to experience Guild Wars 2. We hold the belief that our focus on people and quality is what kept us going these 12 years no matter the status of the game and will continue to hold community as our top priority.
We are a guild that mostly resides in the American Time zones, most active in the evening hours. Our present roster is just under 200 members with mostly a PvE interest and a casual interest in other modes. The bulk of our most active members are highly skilled an experienced. Therefore, the environment in this guild is highly focused on end game activities such as T4 Fractals, Raids, Challenge Motes, and Achievements. While we accept members of all experience, our roster is mostly made up of long term, veteran players, that have been playing for years. We do however host casual focused events to help people get a leg up in our end game scene.
Why join XHSA over other guilds?
What XHSA offers is a quality membership with active and friendly players. We are not the typical “pack the roster with as many bodies as possible” guilds. Here you will only find members active in the game and dedicated to our community. Very few guilds have a commitment to the level of quality we look for in our members. Our focus is about building a strong community and only retaining people that share the commitment that makes a guild this great.
XHSA offers an open community that is easy to fit into. Everyone here were complete strangers when they joined the guild and have made it successful by reaching out and forming long lasting friendships. We want that for every member we accept into the guild. This guild is not some clique of friends that started a guild to recruit people under them and only include them when necessary. You can be certain if recruited we have every intent of getting to know you and including you in activities.
XHSA has a history of standing up to the test of time. We won't die out like other guilds or have ever had to "rebuild" because of a stent of inactivity. Our leadership is well established and active and has stood for years. The guild will not fall apart because some core group became inactive in the game. Most of our members are players that have been active for years and been here for years. You an rest assured that any emotional or practical investment in this guild will last throughout your gaming experience.
What does quality mean to XHSA
XHSA defines quality by activity, commitment, and respect.
XHSA retains only active and participating members in our guild. You will not find our roster to be inflated with inactive, non-representing, members. We expect all of our members that want to join our community to also want to be involved in it. We do not retain people on our roster that are not, as we feel they would reflect poorly on the quality of our membership and discourage others from committing to the community.
Members recruited to XHSA have shown they hold the idea and concept of community highly in their priorities. XHSA is the main guild and home to all of it's members and represent it in a manner that reflects that. We don’t believe in spam recruiting, blind invites, or throwing cookie cutter recruitment messages at people's posts. Our roster is not a collection of random people that we picked up wherever we could. You will find that our members were carefully selected on the basis of having similar goals, interests, and activity to form a well functioning and quality community.
We are also a guild that strives to be inclusive and respectful of everyone. Our members maintain the mentality that this is a video game and we are here to have fun. We have a very mixed roster made up of people of all creeds, nationalities, gender, and sexual orientation. While our members certainly do have a crude, politically incorrect since of humor, we do not tolerate behavior intended to be discriminating or demeaning, towards anyone members or not, for any reason.
We use an application process to offer our members have an opportunity to participate in the recruitment processes and consider potential members. All members of the guild are able to participate and vote to accept or decline an applicant. We like to make sure that each member will be a good fit and that we can offer them what they are looking for in a guild. This gives us the opportunity to get to know someone before we decide to make them apart of our community, and to keep out players that may not be up to the standards above. Be assured, when accepted, members already know you are coming and will be ready to welcome you. You will be joining a guild that actively decided to take you in as part of our community.
Raids
XHSA considers itself highly proficient in end game content and strives to attract talent that would be expected to complete these things without difficulty in a timely manner. We maintain an experienced raiding pool for proficient and interested members to get timely clears and raid achievements. We also have a casual raid nights for players trying to get a leg up into raiding. Our guild is highly anticipating the next raid wing, if you are looking to get back into the scene, this is the place to be.
It is important to note raiding is not something that is required for members to participate in, as it is a highly organized and regulated activity in our guild. We understand raiding may not be something that is for everyone. It is also important to note that XHSA does not offer any form of focused training nor should it be assumed that getting accepted into the guild means that you would be taken into raiding without making the effort to be prepared.
Our experienced raiding pool is somewhere in the neighborhood of 40+ active raiders with 4 static, full clear, teams. This pool is for members that meet certain experience and DPS requirements from which our static teams are coordinated as well as raid achievement and challenge mote runs. The purpose of this pool is to serve as a competency base line for our experienced raiding activities. This pool are raiders that meet the exceptions one would expect from raiders that clear in a effective manner. Meeting these requirements is not a requirement of guild membership nor is membership in a static team required for this pool. If you are looking for something not static, but experienced, you may still join this pool and fill for runs at your convenience.
We rarely have to look outside the guild on any given day to fill a run. While there may or may not be static spots available at the time of recruitment there are usually plenty of opportunities to fill in for absences or impromptu requests throughout the week.
We also host casual raids once a twice a week that do not have any requirements other than being informed enough about the encounters to enter them and running a meta build. These are mostly on a first come first serve basis to supplement members seeking out experience to become a part of our pool or wanting to learn new roles.
If you are interested in raids with XHSA and would like to learn more about our requirements. Please see the link below.
http://xunlaiheroes.wixsite.com/xhsa/raids
Fractals
There are always multiple groups going around reset and often include the challenge motes. You will almost always find a full guild group to run this content effectively in the evenings. We are pretty much accepting all classes and builds so long as you have the required AR. We are highly experienced in this area and welcome those experienced and new alike to join us on these.
Path of Fire
We are still very active in the PoF expansion. Many members are doing their achievements and story or are willing to lend a helping hand anyway. We always look forward to new content releases and experiencing them together as a guild.
Guild Hall and Missions
XHSA has a max level guild hall in Windswept Haven. Our Guild missions are currently every Friday at 8PM Eastern US. If members are online at that time we ask you to join us and mingle with the guild. This is a high value event for us as we like to see people get antiquated with the guild, if they so happen to be online Friday night, via this event. Attendance for guild missions is something that is highly valued as a community builder in this guild.
I would like to be a part of XHSA. How do I join?
It is highly encouraged that you glance over our recruitment posting on our website and any other information that interests you.
http://xunlaiheroes.wixsite.com/xhsa/recruitment
There is application on our website that every recruit has to fill out. We believe in getting to know the members we let into the guild as we do not just recruit anyone. Each application is considered by the entire guild and is voted on. The required segment is very short but it is in a prospective members best interest to provide as much detail as they can. Please allow 24 to 72 hours for your app to be posted and reviewed.
Unfortunately, I can not issue a reply to everyone, we get far to many applications for that. However, I encourage people to contact me in game, on Mireles Lore.5942, if they have questions, want to inquire about the status of their application, or just want to talk to an actual person about recruitment.
Thank you for your time. I look forward to meeting all that are interested.
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2017.09.01 23:14 Mireles [XHSA][NA]Looking a established guild to make home for the upcoming expansion? Join XHSA, 12 year running community for active, fun loving, community oriented players.

Summary
Xunlai Heroic Service Agents is opening our recruitment up to players looking for an established and skilled community to prepare and enter the expansion with. We were previously an end game exclusive guild, but are now recruiting players of all experience and skill levels for the expansion. We only have around 10 spaces left. So, if you are looking for a well established, knowledgeable, and skilled group of players to join for the expansion, this is the place for you, apply today.
Here is a quick summary of our current activities.
About XHSA
XHSA is a 12 year running guild that has the focus of putting community first and seeking out players that also value community. We are a guild that has existed for so long because of our focus on quality recruitment and seeking out players that value community. Here you will find like minded players that have both been active in the game for many years and knowledgeable about helping others reach their goals. If you are seeking out a long lasting community to form friendships with your fellow members to enhance your Guild Wars 2 experience, you will find that here at XHSA.
We are most active in the evening in American time zones and maintain an active discord server. XHSA keeps our roster capped at 200 members as to be small enough to foster environment where people become friends and to be large enough to be able to tackle any challenge that the content presents. We take pride in having standards in our recruitment to ensure, when anyone enters the guild, that they will find a roster of active, committed, and skilled players to enjoy their Guild Wars 2 experience with.
If these things interest you, I encourage people to check out our website and the details below. We also encourage members to comment on our posts to give prospective members a chance to hear from what is most important about a guild, the actual members.
Why join XHSA over other guilds
What XHSA offers is a quality, active, and long lasting guild experience that is unlike your common “pack the roster with as many bodies as possible” guilds. Very few guilds have been around and long as us and have our level of commitment to quality. Here, our focus is about putting our members first to provide a social environment in which to form friendships while simultaneously seeking players of dedication and skill to make our community one of a kind.
We use an application process to offer our members have an opportunity to participate in the recruitment processes and consider potential members. We like to make sure that each member will be a good fit and that we can offer them what they are looking for in a guild. Be assured, when accepted, members already know you are coming and will be ready to welcome you. Not only will you find players capable of comfortably completing challenging content when you join up. Here you will also find a welcoming community to enjoy a long term gaming experience with. One that has taken some time to know you, even before we have sent an invite.
We don’t believe in spam recruiting, blind invites, or throwing cookie cutter recruitment messages at people's posts. Our roster is not a collection of random people that we picked up wherever we could. You will find that our member were carefully selected on the basis of having similar goals, interests, and activity to form a well functioning and quality community. You will find that our standards and ideals translate in the quality of our members and the activity of our community that is second to none.
What does quality mean to XHSA
XHSA defines quality by activity, commitment, and respect.
XHSA does not keep members not active in the game on our roster. While we understand that members may take a break from the game, and are always welcome back if removed from the roster, you will find that our roster is not inflated with inactive players. The majority of our members have been playing the game for well over a year and maintain constant activity. We do our best to seek out and accept members that love the game as much as we do. New or experienced, you will find a guild experience that will last here.
Members recruited to XHSA have shown they hold the idea and concept of community highly in their priorities. XHSA is the main guild and home to all of it's members and represent it in a manner that reflects that. Members that are looking to get socially involved in a community are usually ones that also have high participation and activity. We do not retain people on our roster that do not, as we feel they would reflect poorly on the quality of our membership and discourage others from committing to the community. Here you will find people committed to interacting and supporting the guild and those loyal to it.
We are also a guild that strives to be inclusive and respectful of everyone. One that strongly discourages the formation of cliques. Our members maintain the mentality that this is a video game and we are here to have fun. Many people here were complete strangers when they joined and have formed lasting friendships with players here. We want that for every member we accept into the guild. We have a very mixed roster made up of people of all creeds, nationalities, gender, and sexual orientation. While our members certainly do have a crude, politically incorrect since of humor, we do not tolerate discriminating or demeaning behavior towards people, members or not, for any reason. Here you will find a open and welcoming social environment free of the cliques and closed social circles found in other guilds.
Raids
XHSA considers itself highly proficient in end game content and strives to attract talent that would be expected to complete these things without difficulty in a timely manner. We maintain an experienced raiding pool for proficient and interested members to get timely clears and raid achievements. We also have a casual raid two nights for players trying to get a leg up into raiding.
It is important to note raiding is not something that is required for members to participate in, as it is a highly organized and regulated activity in our guild. We understand raiding may not be something that is for everyone. It is also important to note that XHSA does not offer any form of focused training nor should it be assumed that getting accepted into the guild will eventually get you into our experienced raiding program.
Our experienced raiding pool is somewhere in the neighborhood of 35+ active raiders with 3 static, full clear, teams. This pool is for members that meet certain experience and DPS requirements from which our static teams are coordinated as well as raid achievement and challenge mote runs. The purpose of this pool is to serve as a competency base line for our experienced raiding activities that would be expected of raiders that can clear all wings in under 3 hours. Meeting these requirements is not a requirement of guild membership nor is membership in a static team required for this pool. If you are looking for something not static, but experienced, you may still join this pool and fill for absences at your convenience.
We rarely have to look outside the guild on any given day to fill a run. While there may or may not be static spots available at the time of recruitment there are usually plenty of opportunities to fill in for absences or impromptu requests throughout the week.
We also host casual raids once a twice a week that do not have any requirements other than being informed about the encounters and having a meta build. These are mostly on a first come first serve basis to supplement members seeking out experience or wanting to learn new roles.
If you are interested in raids with XHSA and would like to learn more about our requirements. Please see the link below.
http://xunlaiheroes.wixsite.com/xhsa/raids
Fractals
There are always multiple groups going around reset and often include the challenge motes. You will almost always find a full guild group to run this content effectively in the evenings. We are pretty much accepting all classes and builds so long as you have the required AR. We are highly experienced in this area and welcome those experienced and new alike to join us on these.
We are presently expanding our lower level runs to accommodate incoming casual players. While these can be hosted at any time, the guild sponsored runs occur Saturday nights.
Anticipating The Expansion
Presently many of our members are awaiting the highly anticipated expansion. It is our goal to recruit members that plan to enter this on release day and tackle content that would require high populations and organization. We are a guild with a history of taking this on early and succeeding so long as our members have interest.
If you are looking for a solid guild to get caught up on anything you may have missed and enter the expansion, this is the guild for you. This guild used to be a end game exclusive guild, there a plenty of helpful members to offer advice, guidance, and assistance in reaching your pre-expansion goals.
Casual WvW
Since the release of the new reward system several members have shown interest in some casual WvW, usually group up on the weekend for some light roaming or joining a zerg. The vast majority of the guild resides in Yak's Bend. If this is something you are interested in, you would need to be on our server to join us.
Guild Hall and Missions
XHSA has a max level guild hall in the Lost Precipice. Our Guild missions are currently every Friday at 9PM Eastern US. If members are online at that time we ask you to join us and mingle with the guild. This is a high value event for us as we like to see people get antiquated with the guild, if they so happen to be online Friday night, via this event. Attendance for guild missions is something that is highly valued as a community builder in this guild.
We do intend to move into the new PoF guild hall on release day.
I would like to be a part of XHSA. How do I join?
It is highly encouraged that you glance over our recruitment posting on our website and any other information that interests you.
http://xunlaiheroes.wixsite.com/xhsa/recruitment
There is a short application that gathers basic information about you to ensure we can offer you a quality experience and if you wish, can leave a little information about yourself. I will contact you via in-game mail if we are looking to recruit you to discuss any concerns either of us may have and to properly welcome you.
Unfortunately, I can not issue a reply to everyone, we get far to many applications for that. However, I encourage people to contact me 24 hours after they apply to ask questions or inquire about the status of their application, in game, on Mireles Lore.5942. It usually takes a day or two for an application to be reviewed by enough guild members to issue a decision.
Thank you for your time. I look forward to meeting all that are interested.
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2016.10.30 04:31 MindNumber Me (F25) and boyfriend of 4 years (M25). Everything seemed so normal until today.

(UPDATE BELOW)
He's wonderful. He's always attentive, complimenting, thoughtful and sweet. We've been together for 4 years this December. I won't tell you it's a fairy tale romance, but we really do click. We've been living together for 3 years and it certainly took adjustment but we've really made a home together.
Yes. We've had our struggles. Ugly fights, insults and drama. But what has always seemed important is that we love each other more than any disagreement, we always find a way to work it out. We've actually had a few great months with no big arguments and some healthy lifestyle changes we were making together.
I asked to borrow his phone today to check on a package delivery. I opened his browser and the first suggested web page is OkCupid... When I ask him, he takes his phone and leaves the room for a few minutes. When he comes back, he's asking me what is wrong and playing it really dumb, saying he had no idea how that website could be on his phone.
After a few minutes of repeating that he would never cheat on me (I haven't said a single word yet), I ask to see his phone. I ask him how to login to his OkCupid account and he says he has no idea. I sent an email to reset his password, with his permission. As he opens his Gmail account to get the reset email, I see hundreds of emails from other websites he's got accounts on, like POF, xxx adult finder, Zoosk etc. At this point I'm reading him what I'm seeing and he's denying it STILL.
I said I needed to leave. I said I'd give him his phone if he wanted it, but that if he wanted a chance to work this out I needed to see what he's been doing online. He let me take his phone.
Basically, I found tons of messages with women, very flirty and not platonic in any way. Said he was single in a lot of messages. Told girls how beautiful they are and even said he'd like to meet some of them. I didn't find confirmation of him meeting up with anyone though. As far as I can tell the history goes back two years, him just talking to tons of women as if he's single online. I feel devastated and shocked.
Flash forward, our lives are tied together. We are financially codependent, have things in both names, and we have 2 big puppies that have their first backyard ever due to our recent move into a rental home with a long lease. He swears it was only emotional, a thrill to make him feel wanted and flirty, and nothing serious at all. He acknowledges that it's cheating in both of our eyes, is ashamed and apologetic and showing a lot of remorse. He's going to counseling starting Monday and wants us to also do couple counseling and make it work.
We were just looking at wedding rings together...
I don't know what to do, if this can or should be worked on, or how to separate our lives and not be totally financially ruined on top of it.
TL;DR: Long, seemingly great relationship. Found boyfriend on multiple dating websites talking to tons of women from at least two years ago to current. What do I do?
UPDATE: I haven't yet made my final decision, I agreed to wait until a counseling session this weekend. However, I came up with a plan I think will work for me. He's agreed to sign and have notarized a document that breaks down our living situation and separation of financial responsibility over the remainder of our lease which ends in July. It confirms that I will take both dogs, move into the other room which is smaller and pay less rent which allows me to save for a new place. It states that if he can't be decent and cordial with me I can walk away from the lease at any time and he will cover it. And if I can't be cordial and decent with him, then we're revert to splitting all the bills down the middle.
I feel that this is good for two reasons. First of all, it eliminates the fear of not having anywhere to go, the dogs, etc. The decision I make will be solely based on the facts and the relationship, with me knowing what the plan is if I break up or make up. Secondly, it gives both parties some ground rules and a safety net while also ensuring we're not in a constant war zone until July. We're signing it today.
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2014.09.16 18:35 julianeeds Me [23/F] with my Boyfriend [25 M] of 2 years, broke up with me after a crazy month and now wants to meet to talk after he has " Reflected"

I really do love this guy, but it is really hard for me to think straight about this whole thing. Thank you for any and all opinions Reddit!
We met on POF two years ago in the very beginning of my weight loss (I had just moved back home to southern Ca from college in Nashville, TN....I never knew how much I liked fried food at 3 am) and when we met I was impressed by how handsome and funny BF was.
He was not like anyone else I had ever been with, he wanted to do everything with me. Our second date he took me to the zoo, then kite flying, swimming, bike riding, we had a blast together. He had so much energy and was so affectionate (something I love!).
After awhile of being inseparable, about 8 months of dating I was moving out of my fathers house when he asked me to come stay at his place until I found a place (stupid I know), then after months of me asking if we could just move out he told me we were going to stay to save for a house.
You read that right, we were going to stay...no discussion, nothing. It almost feels like that was the exact moment of downfall in our relationship. I didn't stand up for myself or say "no that's not what I want". I was ashamed that my voice in my relationship had become silent, I resented him for that.
Then things got really bad, I knew that BF had had issues with depression and anxiety ( he had tried to end his life when he was 21 after his first major heartbreak, he was institutionalized for 2 days). I have always seen myself as someone who needs to understand all sides of situations before I address them. I read over 12 books about having a partner with depression and even sat through a online broadcast through my lunch at work for a week about being a responsive partner.
The moment I moved into his fathers home something switched, he became basically non affectionate. I thought he was just maybe embarrassed to do those things in front of his dad but even in bed I was to clingy and he didn't like to be touched at night...like at all. Then the laziness he stopped cleaning anything he stopped showering for Christ sake. getting him to do anything that did not involve drinking was a challenge.
I at first decided he was going through a slump and I was going to be there every step of the way but that just made me gain weight and hate myself for being so lazy, then the fights started because I was going out with or without him, and not like clubbing I am talking a movie, Barnes and noble, fucking Walgreen would have felt like a stretch.
after me becoming so overwhelmed this last Friday because I had to pay a WiFi bill even though we had not had WiFi FOR A MONTH because he wouldn't call Verizon to have them reset the router (it was in his name and social security #), after finding the phone number and basically having to dial it in his phone, it took a total of three mins. I then asked him what he wanted to do tonight (Friday) he said kick it. I had balled my eyes out the night before because I wanted to go do anything and he refused he knew I wanted to go on a date and said that with some mean little grin. I flipped I asked how he could do this to me. He said he wasn't going to and to get my shit and all I do is tell him what he is not doing... I packed up and left, we had not spoke until yesterday when he txted me asking me to meet to talk about everything.
Am I some cold hearted bitch? I am trying to see my place wrong in this but I can't, I feel betrayed that he broke up with me because I wanted to go mini golfing. I want someone to tell me that I handled it all wrong and I wanted to much. I don't think that is what happened but I would love some unbiased outside opinions on this.
We are meeting tomorrow and I am scared he will say he hates me or I am the worst thing that ever happened to him...
please help.
tl;dr: My boyfriend fell into a depressive slump and stop wanting to do anything with me, he broke up with me very coldly because I wanted to go out on a Friday night.
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